
First time I met a brother who changed my life
Was in my A-Level Chemistry class. I rarely mingled with the Muslims, actually preferred to avoid them, I would always sit with Pritesh, Parita, James and Lucy. But on one special Friday afternoon, I noticed in the corner of the lab our teacher was getting frustrated with someone called Imran. I heard Imran politely apologise, and then leave the class, only to come back after about 25 minutes. After the class had finished, I went up to Imran and asked him why he had left. He told me that he had to go pray Jumm’ah. I asked him what Jumm’ah was. A week later, I had moved to Imrans’ table.
First time I realised I was doing da’wah to a non-Muslim
Was to an old college mate, called James, he was one day telling me how he thinks that God’s corporeal existence stems from mankind’s non-utilization of the rest of his brain. I thought that sounded mighty dumb, so I rationally proved God’s existence and then attempted to discuss how Islam defines man relationship with God.
First time I did da’wah to a Muslim
Was to a Hafiz of the Qu’ran. I started to explain to him the basics of the deen, yet it must have only been a few weeks since I properly started to offer my salah. He was a really humble brother and would just patiently listen.
First time I tried to discuss Islam with my Papi
Was not done very well. My over-zealousness made him think I joined Hamas.
First time I realised a sisters worth
Was outside a brothers house. I had just become practising and was invited to a brothers house to learn more about the deen. While I was waiting outside his house, I didn’t realise a sister was patiently waiting for me - since I had blocked the path. I had never realised what a khimar or a jilbab was until that moment. It didn’t just mean modesty for her, because it also meant modestly for me. Her small showing of fortitude had sent a wave of humility over me.
Just for the bro’s
First time I met Babs-M… He got proper confused.
First time I met Ande ka Phande (formely tak dinedan tak) He seemed to have gotten lost (and bruvs, was that place we ate at, even halal?)
First time I met the Traveller: He looked proper youthful.
First time I met Jacare:Â He was proper youthful. And it took me about 3 months to actually figure out his name.
Finally,
First time I listened to Zain Bhika
I thought “Why are they playing Micheal Jackson songs at this Islamic event”. I know this has to be blatantly true for the rest of you. It took me about 3 months to realise that it wasn’t Jacko.






October 24th, 2005 at 10:27 pm
Firing your mommy group: Who do you hang out with?
I have been noticing a sort of trend lately on the internet. And admittedly, maybe when you are looking for something, you have more of a tendency to find it.
Find out how to buy and sell anything, like things related to private road construction on interest free credit and pay back whenever you want! Exchange FREE ads on any topic, like private road construction!
October 24th, 2005 at 10:32 pm
OH NOOOOOOOOOOO!!! The’ve managed to penetrate the level omega blogger word verification system.
Has this started happening to anyone else?
Shall I switch to Haloscan?
October 24th, 2005 at 11:14 pm
Yes, I remember exactly when I met you the first time as if it was yesterday.
Before meeting you and the other bros, I thought that my time at that placewas going to be really boring and dull as I knew no one and didnt seem to fit the crowd, but after it changed. It has already been half a decade since that day, time is passing by so quickly that it will be no too long before the certainty strikes us.
October 24th, 2005 at 11:54 pm
SubhanAllah, it has been half a decade. and Ma’shaAllah you’ve changed so much within that time. I miss you bro. Remember me in your dua’s.
October 25th, 2005 at 4:04 pm
Only the Creator knows whether I have changed or not.
October 26th, 2005 at 10:57 am
Nice post – and the comments are heart-warming. Aww, you guys are sweetie-pies.
But how is a sister’s true worth demonstrated by the fact that she waited for you get out of the way (you said you had blocked the path) - taking into account the size of most of the brothers I’ve met, did she really have a choice?
October 26th, 2005 at 12:16 pm
Lol. I know it doesn’t make much sense. I’m just recalling that it was the first time for me, that I saw a pretty girl and did NOT want to chat her up. As in, it was the first time I felt bare respect for a sister. As in, so much respect, that I would have laid down a red carpet. All because I realised that she loves her Lord.